Women are like spaghetti (#2)

     Men and women are different. No doubt! While men are very compartmentalized and do things in order, women do many things at once (multitask), Often their lives are coiled and embroiled, entangled and complicated. The day might have a distinctive beginning or end. Women make safer choices than men. As little girls they learn to blend in, be sensitive to the feelings of one another, and feel punished if excluded. Girls like groups and include everyone in activities. It has been said that women are “circle” people. Women resolve most of life’s day to day issues in the house.

     Like spaghetti, women must be tended to. Too long in hot water= too mushy and not long enough= stiff. In otherwords, women don’t want to be rescued,,,but don’t want to drown either!


     They want a guy to look nice….not reggedy all the time.

     They want to talk, even if it’s not necessary.

     If you ask us what’s wrong and we say nothing…ask again til we tell you.

     If we talk, you should respond.

     Tender words and little gifts are always welcome!

     You can say “i’m sorry” or ” I’m wrong”.

     Women like to feel secure.

     Intimacy includes conversation and cuddling.

     Women want to be a woman, not your girl, your mama, or your maid.

 Women do think and act different. If you single men want to spend more time with women, you must make adjustments!


Women are Like Spaghetti………..

        If men can be described as waffles….compartmentalized, linear….then women must be like…….spaghetti?????

       Ok, hang with me here. Think about a plate of spaghetti….(ok, now you are hungry)….I mean the visual element. Where does the spaghetti start? End? Difficult to tell! It is intertwined, complex. One strand laying on another. Men like to do one thing at time. MOST women MULTITASK! Phone calls and work projects, childcare and personal life, relationships with mom and cousin Billy….Terms to describe a women’s day….wear many hats….out of the frying pan, into the fire….like spagetti! No neat compartments. (MOST) Women adapt to change better than (MOST) men. Relationships are more complex. And women are better at managing the details. They remember dates and appointments. They have favorite songs that remind them of special moments. The Way We Were….Pieces of April…Women like all the aspects of the moment. Women are interested in what they hear and feel. I remember how my mom would grieve or celebrate when her soap opera favorites had milestones in their lives. Women listen to the words of a song.

        Ok, guys! The girls are more complicated and complex than we are. But, aren’t they worth the effort to understand?